June 2004

In this issue:

Worship Services

Ministerial Musings

Religious Education News

Introduction: Vivien Lieu

Summer Services

Folding Cot Needed

Congratulations: Ruth Patrick

Donation Made

Chalice Ligthing Dedicated to UCE

CUC Chalice Lighting

Brian Kiely Elected CUC President

Circle of the Sun

Top Court Says "I Will" Hear Unitarians on Equal Marriage

Letter about Religious Education at UCE

News from Stephanie Madill

Adult Program Offering: "The Pagan Christ"

UCE Walking Schedule

Supplements:

Calendar

Renovation Watch


The Unitarian Church of Edmonton is a Welcoming Congregation, which means our community is open to all, without regard to sexual orientation, race, gender, age, ability, or income. It's nice to have you with us.


The Edmonton Unitarian
Vol 45. No. 4

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The Edmonton Unitarian June 2004

Volume 45 Number 6


WORSHIP SERVICES

Sunday Services at the Unitarian Church of Edmonton — Services begin at 10:30 a.m.

June 6    Rev. Brian J. Kiely
" Blessing the Pets"
This is becoming a traditional Spring service. Bring your cats, dogs, gerbils, rabbits, goldfish, budgies and any other critters to a service celebrating our connection to the interdependent web.

June 13    Rev. Brian J. Kiely and Karen Mills
"Flower Communion"
In another longstanding tradition we hold a flower communion at our last formal service of the church year. Everyone is encouraged to bring a flower of some kind to be collected at the beginning of the service. Later we will share out the flowers as a symbol of our community of giving and receiving. Chorealis will sing this morning and we will recognize the contributions of volunteers in the religious education program and other parts of church life.

June 20    Rev. Brian J. Kiely
"Picnic Service"
This year we will have our annual picnic in the park across the street from our new church (10804 119th Street). Bring food for yourself or to share, lawn chairs and blankets and whatever balls, toys etc., you think are appropriate. Brian will lead a brief service and then we'll dine and play. If it rains, we'll head inside the "Church of the
Renovation".

June 27    Summer Services begin
Please sign up on the sheet beside the office door.

Come to Services at The Church of the Renovation — Services begin at 9:30 a.m.

Come to our new building at 10804 119 Street on Saturdays at 9:30 a.m. for a 20 minute service before work begins. Everyone is most welcome whether you are part of the Sweat Equity team or not.


MINISTERIAL MUSINGS

They have been impossible to avoid, those unsettling pictures from Iraq. I am not a media junkie, but thanks to Canadian newspapers and both Canadian and American television, it’s been impossible to not glimpse at least a few of them flashing by.

And having glimpsed them, it’s equally impossible to avoid thinking about them. They haunt. Why is that? There have been horrible pictures of the dead and injured coming out of Iraq for a year now. They don’t seem to be as powerful or as disgusting. But then we have been seeing dead bodies since Matthew Brady photographed the American Civil War.

Perhaps corpses are less upsetting because we never see the dead in the act of dying, or being killed. We seldom know exactly how it happened or who specifically did this harm. We tend to distance ourselves from the dead.

But here we have living, breathing human beings - fathers, sons, brothers. We can’t ignore their humanity or their humiliation. What’s worse we can also see their torturers gloating triumphantly, proud at having crushed another human being.

Bombs and bullets kill bodies. That’s terrible. But in these photos we witness the murder of souls. Somehow that seems much worse. It is impossible to affirm the inherent worth and dignity of another person and commit such an atrocity. These are acts that kill two souls, those of captor and captive both. It is impossible to affirm our first principle and not be horrified.

The majority of Canadians have opposed this war from the outset. No one had any special affection for Saddam, but there was widespread disbelief that this war was about anything more than oil, profit and perhaps presidential grudges. I suppose there has even been the odd outburst of malicious glee watching Mr. Bush’s house of cards crumble as lies were revealed.

But aside from general expressions of horror and disgust, there has been very little Canadian America-bashing over the prison scandal. Several years ago there was a smaller scale but similar incident of torture involving Canadian “peacekeepers” in Somalia. A young man died, much to our shame and discredit. And leading Canadian bestseller lists a few months ago was a book by our former top military leader in Rwanda. Gen. Romeo D’Allaire had a breakdown over the U.N.’s inability to prevent the genocide. We can’t point fingers.

Both stories bring awareness that the idea of a good or moral war is patently absurd. War is nothing less than the failure of evolution and civilization. Soldiers giving candy to local children cannot hide the essential immorality of war. It debases victor and vanquished equally exacting a terrible physical and spiritual price from those who fight and from those around whom it is fought.

The only thing that will be sadder than those haunting images will be allowing the blame to stop with the torturers and their military superiors. It is the institution and culture of war that is to blame, along with the political masters who “let slip the dogs of war”.

Rev. Brian J. Kiely
Canadian Unitarian Council


RELIGIOUS EDUCATION NEWS

UCE - The Host with the Most

Planning and hosting the CanUUdle Youth Conference was definitely the focus of May for me. From May 21 to 24, 60 youth and 14 advisors ate (a lot), slept (very little), danced, talked, and enjoyed being in community at our church.

I am happy to say that the weekend went off without a hitch. I must point out that this is because so many people pitched in to make it a success. Thanks go to our youth group members Ella Henry, Meredith Swytink-Binnema, and Nigel Swytink-Binnema for putting so much effort into the weekend and being such fine representatives of UCE. Thanks also to Jan McMillan and our youth advisors Audrey Brooks and John Pryor for their help with food prep, planning, and organization - and a special mention to Audrey for staying with the youth all weekend. And, last but certainly not least, thanks to the countless people who helped prepare and serve meals, drive to and from the hotel and airport, donate costumes, music, and other necessities, and who offered encouragement.

The UCE RE community also provided child care for the conference. Corinthé Stolee, Margaret Swytink-Binnema, and Elizabeth Seale made sure that the "under six" crowd had a great conference experience. Thank you to these creative and generous women for their time.

The quilt wall hanging created by Linda Stolee, Joan Davison, and the children of UCE was also a big hit. It served as the main decoration in the ingathering room of the hotel and provided a beautiful backdrop for meetings and services over the weekend. Congregations were thrilled to be able to take a square home. It’s heartening to know that we are part of a wider connection across the country.

The weekend truly was a case of many hands making light work. I think we should be very proud of our efforts.

What’s next?

All June services are intergenerational. Together, we will enjoy the pet service, flower communion and family picnic.

On June 13, we will recognize RE participants and volunteers. Please come and show your support for the children who attend our church and for those people who give of their time to nurture them.

Karen Mills


INTRODUCTION: Vivien Lieu

Hello everyone! My name is Vivian Lieu and I’m currently a third year accounting student at the University of Alberta. I will be the office administrator for the Unitarian church this summer. Hopefully all of you will see me around.


SUMMER SERVICES

During the summer months while the staff is on leave of various sorts, members volunteer to take responsibility for Sunday Services. Anyone can offer a service on virtually any topic. All you need do is sign up on the sheet beside the office and then prepare a service that is as formal or informal as you like. The eclectic nature of summer services is an important dimension of our congregational life, so consider attending and perhaps even offering a service.


FOLDING COT NEEDED

Jean Lomow needs a folding cot for a few days later this summer. If you have one to lend please call her at 454-3501.


CONGRATULATIONS: Ruth Patrick

At the CUC meetings Ruth Patrick was presented with the most significant award that organization has to offer. The Nancy and Victor Knight award recognizes lifetime contributions to the cause of Unitarianism. Ruth was selected by a committee of past recipients. They noted her service to the Canadian Unitarian Council, most notably as the President at the time the Council made the historic decision to hire its first Executive Director thereby committing itself to a path of growth. They also mentioned her contributions to Lay Chaplaincy in Canada and her continuing work on the CUC Nominating Committee.

When CUC Vice-President Brian Kiely read her name at the banquet, Ruth was stunned and clearly overcome. A few moments later Ruth commented that she could look around the room and see at least 40 people more deserving than she. Noted one observer, "That's why she won the award. She just does her work without expecting a fuss."

The only other member of UCE to have received this award is Bernie Keeler.


DONATION MADE

Lt. Governor Lois Hole, a longtime member of this church, gave the keynote address to the CUC meeting celebrating the work we have done in social justice over the years and encouraging us to keep being pioneers opening up new fields. In recognition of her visit, the CUC made a donation to the grounds work of the new church.


CHALICE LIGHTING DEDICATED TO UCE

At the Canadian Unitarian Council meeting, the CUC Field Staff lit the chalice on Saturday morning. Sara McEwan (West), Linda Thomson (East) and Sylvia Bass-West (Lifespan Learning) shared words they composed when they first met in their brand new jobs a year or so ago. They chose to share them this year and to dedicate them to UCE in honour of our building project.


CUC CHALICE LIGHTING

When you are building a foundation
From far away, it looks as if nothing is happening.
Small figures, without any discernable movement
Gather around a hole in the ground.
From time to time a truck arrives,
Bringing supplies that cannot be made out at a distance.
Wood? Stone? Cement? Something is happening.
But no-one can see what.
They turn away disinterested.
But on that place where the house will stand People are sweating, hauling, heaving and sweltering in the sun.
Measurements are taken, lines are drawn and digging begins.
For days, nothing is seen above the ground.
But beneath - ground is leveled, tamped, made solid
Pillars and beams plotted, space made, the entire plan envisioned.
Made possible by what lies beneath.
When you are building a foundation.
From far away, it looks as if nothing is happening.
Everything is about to happen.


BRIAN KIELY ELECTED CUC PRESIDENT

Our minister Brian Kiley was elected President of the Canadian Unitarian Council at the recent meetings. He is the fourth member of this church to hold that position following Elaine Royer, Ruth Patrick and Stan Calder..


CIRCLE OF THE SUN

We are a group of Unitarian Universalist pagans who meet for fellowship and worship, as part of the Small Group Ministries program. We draw our inspiration from the 6th Source of the "6 Sources of Unitarianism" and we are open to people of pagan and earth-centered spirituality. Meetings are bi-weekly, on Fridays, from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m., usually at the Second Cup, Downtown Milner Library, although locations may vary. (Please phone for details and to confirm meeting location.)

The next few meetings and topics are as follows:

Friday June 11 - "Living through Loss"
Friday June 25 - "Spiritual Poetry and Literature" (Please bring a poem or other writing that has influenced you spiritually, in a significant way.)
Sunday July 11 - Summer Barbecue. Details TBA.
Friday September 10 - Regular bi-weekly meetings resume.

For more information, please contact John Pryor at 488-4098, tandj@telus.net or johnpryor2000@yahoo.ca


TOP COURT SAYS "I WILL" HEAR UNITARIANS ON EQUAL MARRIAGE

The Canadian Unitarian Council has been granted intervener status before the Supreme Court of Canada in the matter of equal marriage rights for same sex couples.

"Our participation is in keeping with a long tradition of Canadian Unitarians seeking equal marriage rights for gays," said J McRee Elrod, of the CUC Working Group on Equal Marriage Rights.

"Thirty years ago, in 1974," he said, "the Rev. Norm Naylor read the banns for Chris Vogel and Richard North in the First Unitarian Church of Winnipeg. Chris and Richard are still together, and they still continue to seek legal recognition of their now lengthy union."

The July 2003 British Columbia court decision legalizing same sex marriage was based on a case brought by five couples, including Dawn and Elizabeth Barbeau, members of the Unitarian Church of Vancouver.

Mr Elrod (Mac) supplied materials for the CUC's Factum. Prepared by CUC's pro bono lawyer Rob Hughes of Smith and Hughes in Vancouver, the Factum draws on US as well as Canadian legal precedents.

"In 1967, the US Supreme Court struck down laws against interracial marriage," said Mr Elrod, "finding marriage a human civil right. More recently, the Supreme Court of Canada found in Chamberlain v the Surrey School Board that law should not be used to enforce the tenants of a particular religion."

For Rev Elrod, however, the overriding concern is that, "new truth makes ancient good uncouth". He argues that, "Law does neither society nor religion a favor by impeding the necessary process of rethinking the relevance of Scripture to new scientific findings."

While the CUC legal team argues that barring same-sex couples from equal marriage is blatant discrimination, Rev Elrod will argue privately that, "The Supreme Court of Canada should be on the side of advancing human awareness.

For more information, contact: Elizabeth Bowen, President, CUC Rev. Brian Kiely, Vice-President, CUC

Regional contacts:

BC - Rev. Mac Elrod - 250-474-3361 I.mac@flc.bc.ca

Ottawa - Rev. Brian Kopke - 613-725-1066 Brian@kopke.org or Elizabeth Bowen, President, CUC 613-236-4504 elizabeth@cuc.ca

Quebec - Rev. Ray Drennan - 514-485-7654, raydrennan@ucmtl.ca

Nova Scotia - Rev. John Baros-Johnson - 902-429-5500, johnbj@ns.sympatico.ca

Alberta - Rev Brian Kiely, Vice-President, CUC - 780-455-9797 brian@cuc.ca

For information about the CUC contact:

Mary Bennett
Executive Director
Canadian Unitarian Council
502-112 St. Clair Ave. West, Toronto, ON, M4V 2Y3
mary@cuc.ca www.cuc.ca
Phone: 416-489-4121 fax: 416-489-9010
in Vancouver: 604-617-0142


LETTER ABOUT RELIGIOUS EDUCATION AT UCE

As everyone probably knows by now, our wonderful Director of Religious Education (DRE) at UCE, Karen Mills, will be leaving that position with us. The RE Program has had superb direction for the past three years from Karen Mills. She has fostered a sense of community and worked on links between the children and other members of the Church. She has brought creativity, music, art and laughter to the program and to all of us. How can we begin to express our appreciation and delight in her leadership and the gifts she has given us? I don’t know about you, but I will miss her very much, (although we aren’t really losing her, just her in that position.)

I have been offered and have accepted the position as DRE and am very excited about working with you on programs and services for children, youth and their parents in this congregation.

I spent two wonderful days attending the Renaissance Workshop on service planning at Westwood and three days attending fantastic workshops at the Canadian Unitarian Council (CUC). I came away with my head bursting with knowledge and ideas and I was excited by all the sharing and caring I encountered. I developed a deeper appreciation of what Unitarian/Universalism stands for and what we contribute to the world. I was especially inspired by the speeches/sermons given by the Honorable Lois Hole, the Lieutenant Governor of Alberta and one of our members, and the Reverend Charles Eddis, the original founder and minister of the UCE 50 years ago. I am hoping to share these ideas with you and seeing if you would be as excited about them as I am.

One of the workshops I attended dealt with the concept of “Appreciative Inquiry”. In its simplest form it is sitting down with people individually and in groups, posing questions that identify the best of what is to pursue dreams and possibilities of what could be. (See footnote for websites.) Westwood shared with us about how they have been developing programs and services standing in the position of “Holding each other in high regard”, captures what I would like to bring to this congregation. We are going to be moving to a new building. It opens up huge possibilities to us. Any change gives a mixture of anticipation, anxiety, fear, eagerness, loss, excitement, joy, wonder and many other emotions. There are those who say: “If we build it, they will come”. I want to stand for an “Attitude of Abundance”. We are told that what we focus on, increases. I suggest we focus on abundance. You know that I have often said I have two favorite sayings. The first is “How hard can it be?” And I usually follow that with “What was I thinking?”

I am going to be posing a series of questions to you today, which are based on two songs in our hymnal. The first is “I seek the spirit of a Child”.

“ I seek the wonder of a child, a child who sees delightfully, now clowns in cloud, now gold in sun—imaginations true and free.”

The second is my favorite song “This little light of mine”.

“Hide it under a bushel? No! I’m gonna let it shine, let it shine, let it shine!”

Karen has made great linkages between members of the congregation and our young members. She has made wonderful initiatives. How can we continue and progress in the directions she has begun?

Our Church has been encouraging our members in the concept of shared ministry—that is that each and every one of us participates in the ministry of this Church. We contribute to the soul of our community through our care for each other, for our social conscience, for our quest for truth and justice and the other Principles we hold dear.

What can the RE Program do to support and encourage everyone in Shared Ministry, not only for adults but also for the younger members of our community? This Church is a beacon of hope in the world. It is an oasis of justice and truth and meaning that many are seeking but do not know exists for them. Many of us have recounted our stories of why we were drawn to UU. It is very moving to hear how much it has meant to people to come here and find out how UU values and principles support us in our personal and spiritual quests. How can the RE Program be a means of attracting more people to our congregation? Can we be that “Little Light”?

I would like to engage in a process similar to “Appreciative Inquiry” with you about what you WANT, and what you want to DO. Anybody who would like to send me an email or meet with me for coffee over the summer, I’d love to hear from you.

I am looking forward to working with you and the young people of this Church. I know that with so many wonderful and amazing people in our congregation and staff, the RE Program cannot be anything except a “loving miracle”.

Rosemary Manning
email: dreuue@hotmail.com
phone: 482-2297


NEWS FROM STEPHANIE MADILL

Stephanie Madill, who is on the last leg of her Master's Degree in Rehabilitation Medicine at Queen's University in Kingston, has just been made the new lay member on the Canadian Regional Subcommittee on Candidacy
(CRSCC), a committee of UU's who interviews Canadian ministerial students toward their suitability for the ministry and helps to guide their training and career plans. Stephanie has been an active member of the Kingston Unitarian Fellowship for two years.

Gaylord Madill



ADULT PROGRAM OFFERING: "THE PAGAN CHRIST"

My recent sermon on Tom Harpur's book drew such a positive response that I have decided to offer a reading course on "The Pagan Christ" this fall. Look for details in the September newsletter.

Brian Kiely


UCE WALKING SCHEDULE May 28 to Aug 20

Friday May 28 - Clifford E Lee Sanctuary. Lunch in Devon
9:30 at UCE and we’ll car pool. Dorothy not going.

Friday June 4 - Wagner Bog. Bring mosquito repellent. Lunch at Multicultural Centre in Stony Plain
9:30 at UCE and we’ll car pool again.

Friday June 11 - Kinnaird Ravine (dog friendly)
9:30 at UCE or 10 at playground at 82 St and Jasper Ave.

Friday June 18- Strathcona Wilderness Centre. Lunch at Katie’s Crossing
9:30 at UCE to car pool or 10 at Wilderness Centre

Friday June 25 - Chickakoo Lake (dog friendly). Bring a picnic lunch.
9:30 at UCE and we’ll car pool

Friday July 2- Mill Creek Ravine (dog friendly)
9:30 at UCE or at 10 at the Mill Creek pool parking lot

Friday July 9 - St Albert, Big Lake (dog friendly)
9:30 at UCE or at 10 at St Albert City Hall parking lot

Friday July 16 - Hasse Lake (dog friendly). Bring a picnic lunch
9:30 at UCE and we’ll car pool

Friday July 23 - Emily Murphy Park to Hawrelak and ...
9:30 at UCE or 10 at Emily Murphy west Parking lot

Friday Aug 6 - McTaggart Sanctuary (and possibly check on progress of Anthony Henday.
9:30 at UCE or 10 at parking lot beside blue bridge west of 119 St on 23 Ave

Friday Aug 13 - Gold Bar Park
9:30 at UCE or 10 at Gold Bar parking lot east off 50th St, south of the river but almost at the river

Friday Aug 20 - The Apple (dog friendly). Lunch somewhere in Sherwood Park.
9:30 at UCE or 10 at parking lot on RR 231 about 2 miles south of Wye Road



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